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Retaining High-Quality People You Worked So Hard to Bring On

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This video teaches you tactics for how to retain the quality people you bring (staff, board, and volunteers) at your nonprofit: respected leadership, engagement, praise and gratitude, benefits, professional development, and more.





Retaining High-Quality People

You Worked So Hard to Bring On


How do you keep those A-players once you have them?

People are the most precious commodity in the nonprofit world. Staff, board members, and volunteers are the engine that generates your resources and impact. Without people, you can’t raise money, run programs, or move your mission forward.


So if you’ve done the hard work to assemble a team of high-quality people—great! But now

what?


A-players know they’re A-players.If they don’t feel valued, engaged, supported, or respected, they will leave—and take their time, money, skills, relationships, and expertise to a nonprofit down the street where they are valued.


Retention isn’t luck.Retention is a plan.

Here are seven proven tactics to retaining the high-quality people you’ve brought on.


1. Have Respected Leaders at the Helm

Leadership sets the tone for the entire organization.

We’ve all experienced the rogue ED, the micromanaging board chair, or the leader who dominates meetings and shuts people down. Leaders like this suffocate engagement and inevitably push great people out the door.

But when respected, admired, and trusted leaders guide the ship:

  • Retention goes up

  • Morale goes up

  • Productivity goes up

  • Collaboration goes up


If you have leaders who are not respected—or are actively damaging your culture—it may be time to consider a change of guard.


2. Give People a Voice

People want to contribute.People want to be heard.People want to help.

But if a few loud voices dominate the conversation while others sit quietly on the sidelines, polite silence eventually becomes quiet discontent—and then resignation.

Encourage your team to:

  • Talk less

  • Listen more

  • Ask better questions


One of the simplest and most powerful engagement questions you can ask is:

“What do you think?”

That single question unlocks ideas, buy-in, commitment, and connection.


3. Engage Your A-Players (Don’t Bench Them)

A-players hate sitting on the sidelines.They want action. They want impact. They want to contribute at a high level.

Your job is to:

  • Match their skills with your needs

  • Put them into meaningful roles

  • Challenge them appropriately

  • Keep them in the game


If you don’t engage your best people, they will find another organization that will.


4. Thank People—A Lot

The “altruist” mentality is outdated.Yes, people serve nonprofits because they care about the mission, but they also want to feel valued.

Deep down, everyone wants appreciation—for what they do and for who they are.

You cannot say “thank you” too often.

Make it:

  • Personal

  • Authentic

  • Frequent


Ask yourself:When was the last time you personally thanked each of your staff, volunteers, and board members?


5. Offer Simple, Inexpensive Perks

People love perks—especially the small, meaningful ones. These don’t need to be expensive to make an impact.

Possible perks include:

  • Flex-time days

  • Casual celebration parties

  • SWAG giveaways

  • Prize drawings

  • “Volunteer of the Month” recognitions

  • Team lunches

  • Coffee gift cards


Take a poll. Ask your people what perks would excite them. Then pick a few and implement them.

It’s simple—and powerful.


6. Build a Team, Not Silos

People like working with people they like.If you isolate great people into silos, they will eventually drift away.

Instead, build a unified team culture by creating opportunities for genuine connection:

  • Host a wine-tasting social

  • Combine a board meeting with a staff dinner

  • Plan fun off-site activities (bowling, escape rooms, hikes, whatever fits your culture)

  • Have board members help staff on a project

  • Have staff attend part of a board meeting

  • Hold a “Board + Staff Meet & Greet BBQ”


When board, staff, and volunteers enjoy each other, collaboration skyrockets and retention becomes effortless.


7. Provide Professional Development Opportunities

People want to grow.People want to learn.People want to evolve professionally.

In today’s fast-paced, digital nonprofit environment, professional development is more important than ever.

Offering learning opportunities:

  • Increases your organization’s “knowledge index”

  • Boosts engagement

  • Strengthens confidence

  • Supports retention


Ask your staff, volunteers, and board members:

“What would you love to learn this year?”Then help make it happen.


Summary: Retention = Engagement + Appreciation + Leadership

Quality people always have options. Everyone is a free agent.

Just because you’ve hired or recruited an A-team doesn’t guarantee they’ll stay. Retention requires intention. To keep great people:

  • Ensure respected leadership

  • Give everyone a voice

  • Actively engage A-players

  • Thank people often

  • Provide perks

  • Build team unity

  • Offer ongoing development


When people feel valued, appreciated, heard, and supported—they stay. And they stay engaged.

Tom Iselin

Rated One of America’s Best Board Retreat

and Strategic Planning Facilitators


About the Author

Tom Iselin is recognized as one of America’s leading authorities on high-performance nonprofits. He has built nine sector-leading nonprofits and two software companies, written six books, sits on multiple boards, and has been rated one of America’s Best Board Retreat and Strategic Planning Facilitators. His work on nonprofit strategy, board leadership, and culture has been featured on CNN, Nightline, and in Newsweek.


Tom is the president of First Things First, a firm specializing in board retreats, strategic planning services, fundraising strategy, and executive coaching for nonprofit CEOs.


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